romance advice????? ? ? ? ?

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Created Jul 7, 2017 17:51:05

so likeee have any of you been in a situation where someone is pursuing you hardcore and you finally agree to a date but you just don't want to go?

like idk what it is about this guy but i'm just not into him

also, do any of you get that feeling where like you're just not interested in anybody lmao? not like, "oh saving myself for oppa because my standards are high" but like a deadass i don't look at anyone feel the need to go out with them?

idk like should i go?? should i finesse my way out of it?

help

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narcoleptic 6 years ago

tbh same
but for me maybe it has to do with the people here who are unattractive af ouch lOL
Bc when I travel to other places it's like WHOaaaaHhaaaa pls come home with me
anyway this is late but totes only agree to things that you know you're interested in (excluding drugs and other bad influences obvi lmao)
You don't want to prolong this for your sake and this person's feelings either
consequences bite u in the ehehehe

ripple 6 years ago

it's really up to you in the end, but i feel like there isn't much of a point in going if you're not into him. i do feel bad for the guy though, but like. in the end it's your feelings and decisions at hand.

lol, same actually. everyone thinks i'm weird for that, i barely have crushes on people.

Lafrisee 6 years ago

You might be aromantic if you experience little to no romantic attraction. Your description sounded a bit like me haha

burgers 6 years ago

i honestly think you should go, just to see what it is like. but it is always up to you and if they say anything about it, then forget them.

mochibun 6 years ago

If you really don't wanna go I suggest you say something to let that person down easily like "I've been thinking and I just don't think I feel the same way that you feel for me sorry if I led you on etc" let them down easily I would say

7b592db194a4ea17ff22 6 years ago

honey, don't ever agree to something if it makes you uncomfortable. you are not obligated to do what he wants, no matter what he says or does. it's YOUR choice.

-euphoria 6 years ago

i mean it's up to you. if you know you will be uncomfortable and you aren't really into him, i would just be honest. honestly though, i would probably be a and lie like something came up otl. I just am not good in those situations.