kinks if we do get to ting- food play, latex/rubber , ropework, stigmatophilia, anonymous , marathon , agoraphilia, aquaphilia, intoxication, telephonicophilia, mild s&m tendencies/mild , rimming, barebacking, clothed , double penetration, mild flogging/spanking, play, cumshots, sensation play/deprivation, amaurophilia, , breathplay, mild choking, control/denial, , mild degrading, queening, exhibitionism, voyeurism, katoptronophilia, navel play, , mutiple s, immobility, psuedo etc (if you don't know the kinks, just search the names, i used the correct name for them)