♡ Love Advice

I had a friend that was in a similar situation and from what I saw, liking two guys is never good, since it's easier to make them jealous once they realize the feelings you have for them resides on another man as well.

The best advice I can give you is to think properly. Have the time or not, you should see whom you like the best, not who seems to be more appropriate to date because of time or other issues.

It might be difficult to wait for someone, but if you really like the guy it's all worth it, even the fastest to talk might disappoint you since you can regret picking him. Or he might, now that's with you. Don't forget is that once you pick one of them, surely it will be difficult to go against your word and pick the other.

 I think i'm starting to like this person because of his personality. He's actually over confident but he does these things that I like, yet he doesn't even notice it or i don't know if he does. He likes someone, i guess but it feels as if he's leading me on, i don't know what to do, help #loveadvice

♡ Love doctor Gianna responds:

Well you got a few ways on how to treat this.

Either you come clean with him and tell him what you fell. I don't know about the full story version, but he won't know you like him, until you tell him.

You can forget about him and let the other love interest win his heart over.

Or you can try to charm him up, persuading him that you're worth keeping around. Like some say: No pain, No Gain.

Also, think over: Do you like this person for the 'things they do' that you like, or for themselves?

Because if that over confidence is an over powering arrogance after all, it doesn't sound like you will be happy, even after you got to have him by your side.

Take your time to get to know this person better and then take your conclusions, don't pick a solution out of lust, desire to win instead of someone else or just because he's oh so handsome.

what's the best way to confess to a person who you thought you hate? I'm not cute, i have no aegyo, i can't charm a person, so i don't know how to charm a person. I'm boyish and childish... I doubt he'll like me but i wanna try to confess #loveadvice

♡ Love doctor Gianna responds:

First and foremoast, you can't say you aren't cute without knowing what the person likes. Everyone as their own charm and qualities they like on another person, so don't bring yourself down. How will you love someone without loving yourself?

Then let me ask you, why did you turned your opinion around? Is it really worth to be with this person you used to hate? Think about it and the best way to confess is to be yourself and reach to the person and just say what you fell, even when it seems difficult.

Just try not to be so negative about it and don't think too much into it, because you're just breaking your own heart this way!

How do you tell a girl that your not ready to commit in a relationship yet? I mean... I like her. But not to the point that I become his boyfriend. Maybe not yet. I like her. I do. But as of now, I can only treat her as one of my closest friend that I enjoy spending time with. A sister? #loveadvice

♡ Love doctor Gianna responds:

The easiest way to do so is to talk to her. But be careful with your choice of words, besides breaking her heart, if you do have fellings for her and decide that one time is the time that you shall be together, she might not be as open to accept your fellings like before.

Be honest to her and say 'Hey, sorry but I'm just not ready for now for this serious of a step and I perhaps we might give it a shot later on, but for now, let's just know each other better.' Something like this would do, because if you say to her she's like a sister, you're done for, because you're sisterzoning her.

 How can you stop yourself from over thinking things when it comes to a certain person? I mean, its really hard not thinking of his actions, i accepted the fact that i'll just be his friend, help meeeeee #loveadvice

♡ Love doctor Gianna responds:

I know very well by now whom you are anon and he likes you too from what I know, so calm down.

He just needs his time to live life a little more and get a little more mature to give a step is something as serious as a relationship, so give him the time.

He also has the problem of being almost of legal age while you are two years younger, so that also helps to his problem of not accepting.

What you should do is just also live life, enjoy the company of your friends and wait for him.

If you don't respect him with this to start with, he might just give up thinking you're not ready, a relationship is something serious, my child. Have faith in him and once he is ready your time with come.

With love, your mama that creeps on her children knows everything. ♡