❥mina x seonhye

ok we doing paragraphs now I GOT THIS

well,, you're right,, but i'm also big on feeling my energy be reciprocated >< so even if it's not an outright no or a swipe left or whatever, i can also kinda feel when there's an imbalance in interest and in a way . . . it makes me lose feelings (if there were any). also i think i can take a rejection,, but i think it'd hurt more if i can see them actively losing interest. yikes T____T

yeah, i think as i get older, i get more tired of doing small talk. i want someone whom i can debate with. it doesn't even have to be that serious, y'know? maybe we're like cuddling while watching a movie and a scene prompts a question and we just talk about it... i like vulnerability, i think it's attractive. but i know what you're trying to say -- i guess we'll cross that bridge when we get there. you'll get front row seats to simp!seon though.

that makes sense to me! do you wanna... name him... or is that a secret for now? okay this might sound hypocritical coming from me, but i really do think you should go for it if you're considering swiping on him already! you miss all the shots you don't take >< and i feel like... you don't need a reason or a justification for liking someone.

thus concludes my thesis LMAO DKSDMKFMG SORRY FOR THE PARAGRAPHS!

baby behaviour ndjsnajnfj no but for real, how do YOU fear rejection? who do you have to be afraid of ma'am? with how careful you are to guard yourself (i'm guessing) you are, i find it hard to picture that any guy that flirts with you for a while and actually takes you on dates and stuff would really reject you.

and no, i got what you meant but i was saying it makes sense that you want to be friendly or friends with someone so you don't have to deal with the shayne/shaina type relationship. it'd be nice to have someone to dig deeper with and talk about things beneath the surface with, so let's hope someone cute comes along and gets ballsy enough to try and learn more about you. >:] especially because i feel like that's kind of hard to come by these days. not everyone is wanting or willing to hold intellectual convos and try to learn from or with their potential partners.

i just think it'd be nice to have the option to even rush into something with someone if you were the type to take it, y'know? i know you wouldn't just go bulldozing in, but i wanna see the sweet and soft get even softer with a guy she's into. sure, right now, it's probably too soon for anything serious, but i don't know... i'm ready to see you start melting. ♡

as for me going on a real date and swiping someone fr though................... what if i told you i found someone kinda cute but i wanna see them around more and talk to them more before i actually swipe them? i wanna take a chance and do it anyway, but... i feel like i need a reason you know?

BUT YEAH a real date would be fun ? and i would love to see u go on one too! so i hope to see u swipe on someone legitimately soon hehehe

HAHAHAHAHA OKAY calm down i'm not like in l*ve with my blind date or anything. the conversation's just nice. i feel like i know who he is, though, so it doesn't feel like a stranger tbh. but i'm still not rushing into anything >< i'd rather take my time and test the waters out than to go bulldozing in.

i don't even need to be friends with them,, i would just prefer to at least know them and have interests we can dive deeper into instead of some surface level convo like... idk shayne and shaina yknow? i think being able to hold intellectual conversations is something i would like to see in my relationship?? something new to learn every day. a guaranteed discussion?? i don't know how to explain it, but yes ><

no, no, i feel u. i also fear rejection DESPITE how confident i can come off as HBSBDHFHB NOT TO BE A BABY OR ANYTHING BUUUUUUT. that's embarrassing zzzzz

and for your sake, i hope he's not taken, your blind date. i'd love to see my gf get swiped and go on an actual date where she knows the man wooing her. T _ T

work at your pace/try to match it.

that sounds reasonable though, swiping on someone you're friends with but romantically somewhat into. i don't know your type, but maybe you'll find someone who can become a friend and maybe a little more too. someone who will work at your pace too because that's also very important.

STOP LISTEN DNSJANJFG i am panic!! but i'm open to swiping on someone random, i just don't know how to go about choosing someone. i don't wanna swipe and then get a left and have that be a repeat process. i'd rather have talked to them a little at least so i have more of a chance to get a feel for them after.

i've only swiped on one person so far,,, that was recent,, and i think it's like ... me being too overly cautious. the blind dates have been fun tho? might swipe on mine if he's not like .. taken idk...

i'm open to the idea! i'm on a dating app after all... but idk,, i kinda like... want an emotional connection too? not that they have to be in love w me right away or anything but it'd be nice to kinda be friends first and then lovers? i also play too much,, AS I HAVE HEARD LMAOOO so maybe i need to tone that down?

can confirm, since u kept fleeing from me AND you knew i was het. pmsl u're so cute babes. so are you fr about swiping on someone random? maybe you can do someone who doesn't come into the chat often,, get to know em better and all!

it seems like you're open to it, but you just haven't found someone to really be like "ya lemme swipe" i guess.

no one so far because i'm too busy playing games. u_u any time someone even hints at flirting with me i flee, it's so sad. do you think you might find someone that captures your interest though? someone who might come along and sweep you off your feet or something?

no i get it !! since everyone's here to kinda test the waters,, everyone is fair game especially since we're all on a dating app, you know? it's okay babes! as long as your intentions are clear. are you interested in pursuing anyone so far?

he wasn't taken?? but now i don't know because i sat back and examined everything. either way, i did tell him about why i swiped, and though i did some like jokey flirty stuff, i don't plan on pursuing something with him. he seemed safe to talk to and practice with, and just like someone cool to get to know, y'know?

ooo, was he taken or?? babes, i don't think you're in the wrong if you made it clear to him that it wasn't a serious swipe. unless you were,, then that's another story??? BUT I AGREE LMAOOO

that's kind of how i feel too. i swiped one guy just because i thought he might be fun to talk to and help me stop being so nervous around guys, but in doing so i realized it might have been awkward. i feel bad, y'know? especially because i don't know about secret coupling that's going on.

can't have women hating me amen

also i don't want to step on any toes bc i like to think i am aware of couples who link secretly bUT ALSO WHAT IF I DON'T AHDFBHGH

i don't think enough men come out for me to swipe on a specific one

STOP, i'm sweating like nick every time it goes up.

every time the Here now increases to 3 i squint like shaina

SAME! but who Would you swipe if given the chance? anyone catch your eye?

babes u know swiping terrifies me HSBDHFFHGHG also sometimes i forget we're based on swiping like i forget it's an option

SSMLMAMLSA.

purrrr why are there 3 people get out Man(tm)

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