Powers:

• Insect Scrying
• Insect Telepathy
• Insect Manipulation

Personality: 

• comes off stoic, cold and with a sharp tongue
• very arrogant, very petty
• also, very subservient and aware of "his place"
• superstitious / pious
• secretly hurt that his husband has no affection for him

Background:

• wealthy noble family descended from an ethnic tribe
  • family is kind of cult-y and intense
  • very conservative with strict hierarchies
  • have their own religion and social codes of conduct
• first child in a long time to be married outside the family
• betrothed to the emperor/empress's brother as a young teen and raised with the only purpose of marrying them