thank you to those who commented. it really has reassured me! writing and rp is one of of my favorite hobbies. i can't imagine having to break away from it. i've heard some people who don't support it, it upsets me but i understand where some people are coming from. it really does takes a lot of communication.
My fiance knows about most of my plots because I open my mouth and AAAAAA
But honestly it really depends on your partner. Some people's partners aren't comfortable with them rping or relationships. It just depends on how secure they feel? And ig that's a discussion to have with your person
my partner knows about it. sometimes he reads my plots and since i write primarily m/m ships i've asked him for advice on how to better write some scenarios lmao. he's pretty laid back though and we talk about pretty much everything. it might depend on your relationship but if you feel safe enough to bring it up to them, i don't see why not.
I've known people to get heavily invested emotionally into their characters ooc and ngl if my partner were staying up all night flirting with someone, even ic, I'd be pretty ing pissed but honestly if you should be fine as long as you're just here to write and interact with others creatively and if you feel any hint of guilt about it I'd advise you to have a discussion with your partner about it and see how they feel
yeah. as long as you talk to your partner. i told my partner my rp journey from the very beginning, including when i used to date people ooc... ugh. it was a time.... ANYWAY uh. it made him weary, rightfully so. but he can trusts me and now he will even ask me what plots i got going on.
i think it's fine. my partner knows i rp and even encourages me to take time to focus on it. i think as long as you don't blur the lines btw ooc and ic with whoever you're rping with, you'll be fine. at the end of the day, rping is a creative hobby.
Uh I was in a long term relationship and never told them about it because it's a hobby. Isn't like you're cheating. This is considered writing and a hobby. So don't overthink it although, I'm sure others may disagree with me but there are so many people taken and rp with others and hide it too because it's their personal time. Some are even married too and take their space and personal time to indulge in a hobby uwu
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