MEET THE WEN FAMILY

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 JUNHUI 

 INSOO 

 NARI 

 MINGYU 

"No family is perfect. They fight, they argue, sometimes they even stop talking to each other for a while. But in the end, family is family, and the love within a family will always be there." Our family, as perfect as it seems, isn't anywhere near perfect. We didn't have the perfect pregnancy. We didn't have the perfect labour.  We fight, we argue. Hell, we even storm out of the room, or well, I do to keep things from getting worse. But nonetheless, the love we have for each other will never change. We'll love each other until the last star in the universe burns out, maybe even beyond then. Family is important in my life, and I'm blessed to have been given such an amazing one, with each and every perfect imperfection within it.

 

Wen Minkui

So, baobei, ever since our predebut days when we first met, you were always considered as family to me, and I'm sure you could say the same thing. We really were one big family. But now, beign able to call you my actual family makes me so incredibly happy, even just thinking about it makes me feel a whole new level of happiness. Depending on whenever you feel like reading this, we could still be engaged, or we could've already said ou 'I do's, but no matter what title you may hold, you'll without a doubt always be my family. 

Going back and reading that letter you gave me after we fought, I honestly can't help but tear up a bit because of it, and you know I'm not really one that shows my emotions as much. But knowing that even if I get busy, you'll always wait for me no matter what... I just couldn't help but worry before that I'll end up making you wait such a long time and that you'll eventually get tired of waiting, but knowing now that no how long I make you wait, you'll always be right there for when I return again, so I just pray I don't make you wait a long time if I ever get busy. But I want you to always hear and remember my sincerity when I say that I'll always come back to you. They say home is where your heart is, and my heart is with you. You're my home. My safe haven. My escape from reality.

And I want you to always remember that no matter how much you think you may love me more, I'll always love you just as much, even if I get those stupid negative thought that start to make me act like a complete idiot. No mater how many time I may leave the room if I get angry, it's only because I do want to make you cry more than I know you will after I leave. SO please, don't run off to umma's again after a fight please? You may think I need space, but I really just need a few minutes to alm down, and then I need you again. I need to hold you in my arms and never let go of you, no matter how many times you may try and move away from my, or completely refuse to let me hold you. All I need, is you.

Aside from that note, I too look forward to seeing you dressed up in a white suit on our wedding day. I know you'll look absolutely gorgeous, like you always do even if you don't want to admit it. I look forward to the countless memories we'll make in the future. I look forward to the future little ones that will follow Insoo and Nari, and I promise, I won't pull stupid things like I did before.

I love you, with every beat of my heart. I'm so irrevocably in love with you, I just hope you never ever forget something like that. You're my reason to keep looking forward to a new day, and I'll do anything to make sure I never lose you.

I love you. So much. I can never say it enough. No matter how many times I've said it in this, I'll say it again and again. I love you. I love you. I love you. I love you.

Your forever and always,
Wen Junhui. ♥

 

Wen Insoo and Wen Nari

Now these little two. These precious little bundles of joy that I love oh so much... I still remember the very first day mama told me I was possibly going to be a father, and I was so ecstatic at the thought. Then we went to the doctors and they told us that the results were positive and we were going to be parents. Mama and I were both so happy that we finally got to have a little baobao of our own.

Only... There was one problem. Mama was getting very sick, and I really worried. We went to the doctors to see if we could figure out what was wrong with him, and aside from his excessive morning sickness and being underweight from it...we found out there was the two of you rather than just one of you. It felt like such a miracle, that not only were we blessed with one of you precious little angels, but we actually had two. We really couldn't believe it. 

From then on though, it got very hard. Mama's health only got worse because he couldn't eat, and not to mention that you, little Nari, were much smaller than your brother because he was greedy and got whatever nutrients mama got from the little food he ate before you could even get the chance. But, you're our little fighter. You both are.

Especially with you two being such early preemies. The doctors were really worried that you two might not have made it because of just how tiny you two were, but you both fought throught it like mama did and now here you are, probably sleeping away, at home. Mama and I love you both oh so much, and you two bring such happiness into our lives. You always have since day one in mama's tummy, and you always will.

I love you both so much.

Lots of love,
Baba. ♥

wen junhui.

14.11.2017

Hello baby,

HAPPY MONTHSARY BABY \o/

w ow, we've been together for a month already? Time passes real fast when you're together with someone you love.

I'm not very good with words so I'm not sure why I'm attempting to write you this letter but I will try.

Thank you for putting up with me for these past 31 days, 744 hours, 44,460minutes, 2,678,400 seconds. Like I always say, I don't know how you exactly put up with me because there are times when I feel like I can't put up with myself. You're like a constant in my life, always here to piece up broken pieces of me and my life. Always here to ensure me that everything will be alright even though I know it's not gonna be. To give me the reassurance that I lack in my daily life. To tell me 'i love you' so that I will remember that i'm being loved. There's so much so much in my life that you're there for that I've not listed but if I had to go on, there would be a never ending list and I'm not sure if I could quite finish this letter.

To the you now;

Thank you always being here for me. Sometimes I feel like the worst boyfriend in the world. Mostly spending my time lounging around and telling members to cuddle me or to tell them to marry me but you know very well that in my heart, there will only be you and only you right? And that despite my joking proposal to other members if you ask me to marry you, I would willing say I do in a heartbeat. You mean so much to me, Junhui hyung. And that I would trade anything and I really mean anything in world to keep you by my side. You're like the oxygen I need to live, you're the sun that reminds me of warmth, you're the reason I wake up and look forward to everyday. Sometimes I cannot express how much I love you but I do.

I used to harp on being your second choice but these days I think maybe it isn't that bad. For the days you've been with me, I've never been much more than happy to have you in my life, proving me that it doesn't really matter when you picked me or how. I just know that you taught me what real love and care is and that despite not being in your heart first, I will always been in your heart now just like how you will be in mine. You make me smile when I cry, you pick me up when I'm down, you deal with me at my worst and you love me at my best. And I doubt I can ask for more because I've already gotten the best. Thank you for looking pass all my flaws. I'm an imperfect baby, but I'll try harder and work harder to be your one and only perfect baby.

To the you in a few months time and in the future;

I hope that we'll carry on for many many months and years to come. Hopefully by then you'll be so used to putting up my nonsense, you'll be immune to it. :") I've said once.. or more, but I can't wait for the day I officially take the surname wen, to officially call you mine, to make you my husband, for our kids to take your surname. I look forward to spending each and every step of my life with no one else but you. Actually, I don't see how I can spend my life with anyone but you. I look forward to hitting every single new milestone with you and finally to have a wonderful and beautiful future with you. Thank you for being my final destination

Again, Happy monthsary baby, hopefully we'll get to spend many many monthsaries ahead of us, till we get married, have our own kids and to grow old together. to many more precious moment and memories spent with you. I love you so much, wen junhui.

ahjussi

12.19.17
You didn't let me finish... Always jumping to what you assume is the end without thinking about my reasons for it...
/I shake my head slightly, doing my absolute best to put the guilt and and pain behind be to pat around my jacket, mumbling something along the lines of "It's here somewhere-" before pulling off my winter coat, dropping it on the floor in the hallway which only revealed the fact that I was dressed up rather nicely in contrast to how you look at this very moment. i was dressed in a simple black suit, and I patted down the pockets of said suit jacket before hesitantly reaching into the inside pocket, to which I pulled out a small velvety box and held it within my hands, staring down at it as I continued to speak.
I was going to say that I'm not going to give it back... At least at this very minute, because I wanted to replace it with something else. Mingyu, you have absolutely no idea just how important you are to me. You can be the most demanding, most insecure person ever, but that will never change the fact that I love you beyond the point of possible explanation through actions or words. I don't see myself with anyone other than you, so if it's not you, then I'd rather die alone than attempt to find happiness like this with someone else, because that happiness will never be the same as what I feel with you. You're the love of my life, and I never want that to change, nor do I want us to part. These past couple of weeks I've been trying to figure out how I wanted to propose to you. I've had a ring for quite a while now... Mingyu, I took advantage of this fight we had. I didn't go away to think about if this is what I wanted... I went away for the day and took a train to Anyang. I went to visit your family...to ask for their permission to marry you, and they gave me permission. There will never be a moment of "Do I really want this?" because I know for a fact that this...this is what I want. This is what I truly want. I've made up my mind, and I still haven't changed it. I know this isn't the most romantic of ways to do it, especially because I've just been playing around with your emotions this whole time after our fight... But please, I'm going to fix these broken pieces of your heart and make them whole again, even if it takes a while...
/lightly bites at my lip as I shift slightly to slowly kneel on one knee in front of you, pulling open the velvet box to reveal my 'replacement' ring within it.
Mingyu, I know I always give in to your wants, and I'll do my best to get better at not giving into them so easily, but for once, let me be greedy and selfish and give me what /I/ want for a change. I want to spend the rest of my life with you. I want to be the kind of father that stays by his children and their mother to help raise them and watch them grow. I want to make more and more memories together that we'll look back on when we're old and gray. I want you to become Wen Minkui. Mingyu, I /want/ you to marry me. So please... I know I've broken your heart far too much than I should have this past twenty-four hours, and you have every damn right to say no, I can't blame you if you do decline... But I want to ask... Kim Mingyu, if you'll forgive me for everything I've done to hurt you...and marry me...?
 

06.10.18
Junhui's Vows : 
I apologize... They're kinda..er..really long-
/flushing a bright red, I clear my throat and eye our hands for a moment before looking back up at you
Kim Mingyu, first of all I want to say that you look...absolutely amazing in each and every way possible, just like always, and that I love you so very much. No matter how many times I try to think of how to say it, I can never come up with a way to express just how much I mean that. I could say many things, “I love you more than anything.” “I love you so much that my heart is just overflowing.” “I love you so much, the whole universe couldn’t possibly hold it all.”, but no matter what I say, it really can’t express just how much I love you… It's just...so impossible to put a number, or specify the amount of something so precious. Who knew we’d get together whilst feeling warm and happy within each other's arms that day chilly day in October.. I certainly didn’t. I’m not complaining either. Even if it wasn’t out of direct love at first sight, you’d still managed to make that spark within me grow far more bigger than I’d even thought possible as each second passed. Somehow, you went from the germy kid I teased by calling you Germgyu to the man I love so very much and am beyond happy to be able to call my husband at last. I never knew or even thought that one day you'd be this important to me. I know we’ve had, and probably will continue to have, many ups and downs, some that even brought us to the point where we thought we’d never recover, but I’m not going to give up. I haven’t given up before, and I definitely won’t give up now. I want to hold you. I want cherish you. I want love you for many years to come. I know, we’ve hit numerous rocky patches...ones that nearly brought us to our end, but we got through them together because like I always say "when we're together, we’re two times stronger", and just seeing how we never give up on each other no matter how hard things can get is one of the many ways I see just how much you love me, and I hope that you see, at that time, just how much I love you too. You still have no idea just how much you mean to me, and I can’t even begin to specify that either. You’ve taught me so many things, and I really can’t thank you enough for the things you’ve done for me, even if you don’t think it’s much… You taught me what it was like to feel loved dearly by someone. You taught me and gave me real happiness. You gave me a family, even when I wasn’t aware that it was something I would love as much as I do now. You gave me a place to come to whenever I felt I needed somewhere to go and feel comforted when something happened. Your arms. You fill me with a warmth that no other person could possibly make me feel. A warmth that makes me feel safe and loved… And to know that all of that will be mine forever in a matter of minutes.. I can’t even begin to explain how happy all this makes me now. So, with this ring that I’m about to give you, it’ll be something that’s always with you to hold these promises I make you today, and for the ones during rest of our lives, and I’ll have one to hold all yours. I promise to love you, for the rest of my life, and for all the years after. I love you, Mingyu, and thank you… For being such an amazing member, friend, boyfriend, fiance, and now husband. And I’m ecstatic to forever call you mine. Thank you, for loving me.
/the further I'd gone on with my vows, the more my voice began to shake, as if I were doing my best not to sound too quiet or make the words sound to caught in my throat, but at this point, I couldn't stop the tears that had dribbled down my cheeks from my eyes, ultimately closing them by the time I neared the end, and my somewhat shaking hands gave yours a squeeze

Mingyu's Vows : 
Dearest Junhui, my baobei, the father of my very three adorable kids.
/Inhaling a deep breath, I my lips nervously.
Dearest Baobei, till this time, I remember the time when were first got together, you were the biggest bully I had ever met, constantly bickering with me, never had I known wiping snots on your jacket would have glued us together till this day. I had never envision when I got close to you, that I would be standing infront of you at this very moment, saying my vows. I’ve learnt through the many months and days that we’ve spend together that you’re someone who would pursue something or something you like with confidence and patience, and for that, I’m grateful that I’m one of those to you. Your love is not easily won, but nonetheless generous when given.
/pausing for a moment, I gave your hand another squeeze.
I love your unflinching patience especially if I’m the one testing it. I love that whenever I feel completely ashamed and unsightly to face the world, you tell me that I’m beautiful and I’m the most wonderful person. I love how you take care of me when I’m stressed, make me laugh like no one else can, my own personal remedy for my rainy days, or simply when I need cheering up. I love how you get flustered at the most simplest compliments I tell you and when I watch you as you wake up.
/laughing a little, i folded the small piece of paper, tucking it into my pocket as I then reach out to hold your hand, locking eyes with you.
I promise to be your partner in life. I promise to continuously inspire you, like you have inspired me, from today forth, my heart will be your shelter and my arms will be your home. I promise to love you unconditionally and wholeheartedly. To always encourage you, comfort you, trust you, respect you and laugh with you. And lastly, I promise to keep falling for you every single day, day by day, just like the first time on the faithful night in dorms. To continue being your best friend, boyfriend, fiance ,your husband and the mother to your three little monsters and perhaps a few more. I love you, Wen Junhui, and will forever more.
/taking a deep breathe, I could feel myself choking up as tears welled up in my eyes, relieving the little snippets of our days spent together from the beginning.

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yoon jeonghan [sh] 19 seconds ago Reply
Jun's dp saved mah soul-
kim mingyu 14 hours ago Reply
@wen junhui Hyung, it's not good to keep swearing.
I fell asleep last night 3 sorry beheh.
If your face hurts, I'll kiss it all better. 
I love you so much. 
I woke up this morning and wow, I just felt like telling you how much I love you and how much you mean to me. I love you love you love you so much baby
kim mingyu 26 seconds ago Reply
So I have this wonderful boyfriend call junhui and I love him to bits <3
yoon jeonghan 6 minutes ago Reply
seventeen goes from cuddle pile to real quick
There is nothing in between
yoon jeonghan 1 minute ago Reply
if only he pursued his acting career in china instead of joining svt, he probably has an adult movie already-
kwon soonyoung 1 hour ago Reply
Jun looks like an angel in lilili yabbay tbh
lee yoonji [h] 37 seconds ago Reply
Junhui with a baby kills me
kim mingyu [sh]1:53:40 PMReply
You know i would never marry yoonji. I love him to bits, just like I love you. But there’s only one person I love and willing to do anything for. ;; of course, it’s junhui-