This is horse .
Everyone who's on this site grieving, that's fine.
Other people who aren't that's also fine.
But what DOESN'T need to be happening is people going around and negating everyone else and what they're feeling.
Specifically in regards to people coming out in blogs confessing that they've struggled with depression and thoughts of suicide.
This is supposed to be a safe place, and these are real people finding an outlet to tell someone, or give a cry of help, and everyone saying it's bull and that they just want attention, and that their blogs need to be taken down because it's not one of the million Jonghyun blog posts (Rest in Peace), that it doesn't matter.
These are REAL people. People that you have a higher probability of coming into contact with at some point in your life than meeting your favorite idol, and the things you say can be the difference between a life and a death.
Another thing, grieving times are different for different people. It isn't insensitive for someone to post something unrelated to the unfortunate and untimely death of the idol, and not make a series of posts about him. That isn't for anyone to judge. Especially because it's even more strssful and disheartening to see your feed filled with sad posts, then seeing ones that may be quirky or something else. Tbh I want to see more posts about Taeyang's engagement which happened the same day. More positivity is needed. If you don't like a blog post, don't comment and don't read it.
Now, I send my prayers out to Jonghyun's family and members, and to everyone who is grieving I hope you don't forget to take care of yourself while you're doing that.
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