Help!

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Created Feb 18, 2019 04:51:03

Okay so I usually TRY to keep my IRL out of RPer but here goes nothing, I need help

So a while back I met this guy lets call him Will, and well Will made me feel happy, confident, and for a brief moment I thought he was everything I wanted. Usually I dont take to people, not as dates or whatever- why does this matter well..

I think he's getting too comfortable, I HONEST, HONEST to GOD, TO MY DOG, TO MY BEST FRIEND, MOM and SISTER, I thought this guy and me could be something but now I feel...not bored, but just burdened by him. I'm sorry but he really isn't what I want, I thought he was at one point but now...just no..so please how can I let him down without something crazy happening. For a long while I felt on cloud 9, I felt so happy but I've been alone for so long and his vibes weren't really there with me so, might as well end it but my anxiety is kicking in now.

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lukhei 5 years ago

I guess in this situation the best thing you can do is to be 100% honest with him. Straight up telling him the truth is better than trying to tell him some water downed version that doesn't fully explain why're doing it. Just be honest eith him and if he's a decent guy, he'll understand. He may feel hurt but that's absolutely normal- just, don't trade for feelings for his. Yea, you may be nervous and anxious but to me this is the best way to do it.

Biribiribibi [A] 5 years ago

PPS- I downloaded the dating app we met on and after two days of...ignoring him..if you will he texted me on the app just a while ago before posting this and I still haven't opened it, I'm just that annoyed, nervous.

Everme29 5 years ago

Did you meet him on this site???

Biribiribibi [A] 5 years ago

PS- He's been to my house, met my mom and I feel so horrible, paranoid that since he knows my location, even though he doesnt give me creepy vibes, it's just a concern I have in the back of my head that he could do something.