➳ match 08

@➳ k. mingyu ah, i’m glad to hear that! thank you!
and it’s fine even if you prefer to show how you feel instead of saying it. i think the most important is to avoid mean words.
ah! that’s lovely! animals are cute! do you have any?
and don’t put yourself down like that! i could teach you how to draw/paint if you’d like.
and i agree about the lying! it isn’t very nice!
this is great - learning about each other. you’re kind!
and it’s okay. we can go with the flow!

@➳ j. wheein you won't have to worry, I do think being sensitive is good. and if you're able to express it, even better!
thank you for your honest answers, i think i can understand you a bit more now. i don't know how much of a help on the words of affirmation i can be, because sometimes i just do things instead of saying...
and I'm okay with cats, in fact, i love all animals. regarding art i don't have any talent for it, but i appreciate it fully.
a big no... hm... someone who hides their intentions and feelings. it's okay if things are alright, just don't lie kind of thing, you know? i think that's mostly it
my love language is quality time, as long as i am with the person i love, I'm the happiest.
I'm don't make a lot of questions because I prefer to let things flow, but if you have more let me know!

@➳ k. mingyu that is true, indeed! i’m sure you’ll do great though!
about number 6, that’s nice! i’m a bit more introverted although i love to interact with close people and meet new people! i just am very independent and tend to prefer smaller crowds. i’m also very artsy - i work as a museum curator in an art museum - and a bit sensitive. i think that’s important to let others know since i know that not everyone feels comfortable with people who are a bit more sensitive to everything.
about number 16, it is a bit similar for me, except after waking up/cleaning/getting ready, i enjoy to dance a bit or go for a walk before work and then, i offer language private classes and i tend to relax at night. that often means painting/drawing, listening to music/a movie or going to a cute bakery/café and reading a book.
for number 19, i’d say that is quite important for me too! i’m also looking for someone to communicate with and to learn from. i love to learn new things and i also appreciate some physical intimacy, although i tend to respect people’s terms (when/where/how). that’s so important because not everyone is comfortable with a lot of it or in public.
for 21. i am a bit more of a homebody i suppose! i work quite a lot, so i enjoy to relax in the comfort of my apartment when i have free time or visit cute bakeries/museums/stores.
i was wondering if you like sweets/pastries and art? and are you okay with cats? i have a small cat at home and she’s my everything. i wouldn’t want to cause issues if you have allergies or don’t like them.
i think that how you describe your ideal significant other is nice! i tend to look for someone who is caring, empathetic (wouldn’t judge me if i cry for example) and respectful. do you have anything that is a big no-no in dating/significant other?
as for my love language (question 7), i don’t think that i have a specific one, but i’d say i lean more toward words of affirmation and quality time. i feel like communication and support are some of the most important things in a relationship. i do enjoy being complimented/praised/thanked quite a lot and spending time with loved ones (no matter where) is important. what would be yours?

@➳ j. wheein hello there, pleasure to meet you. hope the same!
I will try my best to answer them, even thought sometimes it's hard to look at ourselves
6. I would say pretty much layback, enjoy the little things in life, I'm extroverted and like to meet new people
16. i wake up, workout, go to out, after work depending on the hour i workout again or just take a walk and then home time
19. someone who understand me and communicates well, let's say trust
21. workout or doing anything outdoors, with or without someone
25. someone with sense of humor, caring, passionate
yes, i do think your questions are the most important for now, you may answer them and i would like to add 7.What’s your love language?

@➳ k. mingyu well, first off, it’s lovely to meet you mingyu! i am wheein! i hope that we’ll have a great time getting to know each other. i’m a bit nervous, but excited.
i have already looked at the questions. i have chosen a few from the list if you’d like to answer them!
the first is 6. what’s your personality type/like?
then, i have 16. what does your daily routine look like?
19. what do you look for in a relationship?
21. what do you do in your free time?
and
25. how would you describe an ideal partner?
you can answer them first and send me your questions if you’d like, or i can answer them first! it is up to you! i hope that the questions that i have chosen are good ones. i think that they are perhaps some of the most important to get started! :3

@➳ k. mingyu @➳ j. wheein ➳ round one, begin!