That other folks aren't just NCPs in your life (or roleplaying).
People have their own feelings and wishes and needs. And just because those might conflict with yours, doesn't mean they are a bad person or have it out for you :')
Life is a multiplayer game and you won't always get what you want. People are their own autonomous beings and aren't obligated to do what you wish they did! Like, it may hurt your feelings, but if it would hurt them more to bend to your will, why would your hurt matter more than theirs? It doesn't!
You can't force people to give you attention or love if they don't wish to. Or, well, you may try to manipulate them into it, but then you're an , and you're still not gonna get the enthusiasm you're wishing for. So just ing stop it. Why is it hard to be a decent and respectful human being? Go find the people who do want to give you the attention and love that you crave. Or go play dating sims and videogames where everyone else is indeed just a made up character and code and you won't hurt them by forcing your way. Or write fiction/fanfiction where you can play god and what you want will always happen, exacty the way you want it to.
But that's not how real life works. Or roleplaying on this site for that matter. This is not real life, but there is still a real person with feelings behind the characters we play. We have our own priorities and wishes for those characters, not just there to be NPCs for your roleplaying. As said above, if you want to rp with NPCs, go to a dating sim or a chatbot. And if you try to disrespect and manipulate and aggressively force your will on me or my precious friends, we got beef. I won't be calling names publicly but I hope people might reflect.
Okay, rant over.
Very likely the people who I'd like to speak to won't even read or won't notice themselves or won't accept the critique, but I ran into a couple of these "main character syndrome" folks recently and just had to let this out :') Thanks for reading and bearing with me.
ps. turns out I got more to say as soon as I hit post.
Those quietly and pirvately abusing folks, while being charming in public... don't you dare go saying your victim is the bad one for smearing your name. No, dear, it's you, smearing your own name by doing abusive and manipulative . Don't want a bad rep, don't do bad , as simple as that. You wish your victim had no support network and no one to tell your bad deeds to so 1) you can keep doing it unpunished, 2) keep them isolated so they got no one else to turn to and will be stuck with you even if you're continuously treating them like , which they deserve so much better than... So disgusting. Good on the survivors if or when they gather the courage to leave an abusive situation like that and get back the freedom they need and deserve. Don't you dare guilt tripping them for it or play the victim and smear them publicly for leaving you lonely... Maybe, learn to respect people, and you'll be able to build actual mutual human connections :')
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