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r/AITA: AITA for telling my friend that i don’t want to help them anymore? i meant they wanted to borrow some money which they already did in the past, but never give it back till now. whenever i asked them to return the money back, they would always avoid the qn and proceed to call me as stingy, that doesn’t want to help their friends when in need or they would just read as if nothing happened. this has been going on for couple weeks, and i kind of feel they just want the money n not friendship. is it bad if i feel that way?

@✮ moderator. ugh I feel you anon since I've been in the same situation before. instead of complaining, I just moved out and moved on. I am not saying that you should do the same but complaining again and again just, tiring and I am already tired with works. I received the same answer when I first complained to my neighbor about the unnecessary noise as he also said, "Just because you are an idol and have lot of fans, don't think I'll be scared. You are too sensitive." Sensitive my arse. He be playing drum in one second and continued watching a long series of whatever shooting movies on his television and had wild parties almost every day for 6 weeks straight, unbelievable! So let me assure you anon, you are not the , but he is. Consideration is practically and genuinely the most essential element when you live in a neighborhood residency. The least that neighbor of yours could do is just control his lust and Idk, practicing silent 'intertwining souls' process, perhaps.

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r/AITA : AITA for telling my neighbours to get a hotel if they want to "do stuff" every night? I, M 25, needs his beauty sleep. It's rare for me to even have free time as you know, being an idol means sleeping in cars, breakrooms, flights, 5 minute shut eyes in practice rooms. So when I finally have time to sleep for a full 24 hours, of course I would want it to be peaceful. But my neighbour has been shaking my walls and made noises too loud for me to ignore, so I went over to tell him to get a room elsewhere for his wild escapades. He got mad and told me I was entitled just because of my "idol status" but he failed to recognise consideration. I just feel like he's not respecting my free time and what kind of gentleman would continue on his adventures after his neighbour complained, was he not embarrassed at all?